Ever wanted advice on your relationship from that cool guy friend who has all the answers? Well, Mr. X is that friend for you. Every other week, he’s going to answer the questions you send him and if there’s one thing you can count on him for, it’s being honest. So go ahead, ask Mr. X
“I like a guy. He’s my childhood friend and my family friend. A few months back we went out and things got serious between us. He made me feel like I’m on top of the world. He even cried to me on video call, saying that he never wants me to leave him. But for the last month he’s been ghosting me. I’ve asked him why but he’s just not replying. I just don’t understand what to do…”
I’ll keep it short and simple for you. This guy is bad news. Run. If he was ghosting you for a week, I’d say maybe give it some time, maybe he’s busy with something, maybe he’s going through something life-changing (even though none of this is excuse enough to ghost
someone). But if it’s been a month…clearly this guy has no respect for you or your time. You deserve better than that. And it may not feel like it in this moment, but one day this guy will be a distant memory, and you will be with someone who truly loves you and respects you.
You just need to learn to love yourself, and respect yourself first. Take it from a guy, if we want to speak to someone, we’ll climb on a phone signal tower to make sure we do. All this guy needed to do is text back.
Trust me, even if he does message you with an excuse, I’d reply with a simple, ‘ok’ and never speak to him again if I were you.
Best of luck, & Godspeed
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