By Ever wanted advice on your relationship from that cool guy friend who has all the answers? Well, Mr. X is that friend for you. Every other week, heβs going to answer the questionsΒ youΒ send him and if thereβs one thing you can count on him for, itβs being honest. So go ahead, ask Mr. X.Β
‘I love a friend of mine a lot but he doesnβt know. I find him really cool and heβs always surrounded by girls, but still doesnβt have any girlfriend. Heβs civil with me, but has never shown any interest in me outside of our friendship. I feel like a one sided lover. My friends tell me I deserve better but I’m stubborn in my love life β once I pick my choice I stand by it. What should I do?’
Mr X’s Response:
Ok friend. This is always a tough situation to be in. You have two options. You can shoot your shot and possibly risk losing him as a friend, or you could just suck it up and move on. From what I gather, your friend seems to be a reserved guy so itβs possible that he may feel the same way. Having a honest chat with him about this canβt hurt. It could go either way. Maybe he feels the same way. Or maybe he starts seeing you differently after learning how you feel. Either way, for your own sanity, being honest seems to be the right thing to do. It may be a tough conversation to have but youβll have clarity once itβs over.
Godspeed,
Mr X
What do you think?